Thoughtful Wedding Gifts for the Mother of the Bride and Groom
Thoughtful wedding gifts for the mother of the bride or groom include personalized handkerchiefs, meaningful jewelry, family recipe keepsakes and relaxing spa gifts. The right choice depends on her personality. A sentimental mom might treasure a handkerchief embroidered with your wedding date, while a mom who loves bringing everyone together might appreciate a keepsake filled with family recipes.
As a wedding heirloom designer here at The Garter Girl, I love gifts that connect your wedding day to the people who helped you get there. A gift doesn’t have to be elaborate to feel special. A personal detail, a handwritten note or a nod to a family tradition can turn a simple thank-you into something she’ll treasure.
See more this custom handkerchief made from a mother's wedding dress →
Ahead in this Garter Girl Loves feature, I’m sharing wedding gift ideas for your mom or future mother-in-law, including personalized keepsakes, practical gifts and a few playful options to make her smile.
All of these gift ideas are sweet, simple and not too expensive. Some of these gifts are even funny, you know, to lighten the mood during that stressful time of wedding planning! Best of all, each of the gifts can switched around to be be easily gifted for the mother of the bride, for the mother of the groom or both!
Gifts for the mother or the bride and/or a gift for the mother of the groom, they might be the two hardest wedding gifts to come by! What should you get them? You can't just get them anything, but you don't have a ton of money to spend? You don't want it to be like a Mother's Day present, but you want it to be special and meaningful to show them just how much you appreciate all of their help with the wedding planning…and, you know, getting you to this point in life!
It can be hard to find just the right gift, something that isn't too expensive, but is still really special and thoughtful. When in this situation, I like to go semi-custom. Semi-custom is when the gift isn't fully customized so that it will take too much time or energy, but is still obvious who it is for because there is a little bit of personalization.
This could be a necklace with their birthstone, a funny candle or mug, or my favorite gift below, a bracelet with everyone's initials, including the newest member of the family! Of course, one of my favorite semi-custom gifts is a personalized wedding handkerchief.
See more this custom handkerchief made from a mother's wedding dress →
Etsy is big on gifts for everyone, but I saved you a whole bunch of time and energy, because you are planning a wedding and I know you don't have a lot of time these days! I went to the end of Etsy to find just the right gift ideas for your mother of the bride and/or your mother of the groom that are sure to bring a tear to their eye, or maybe even a laugh or two!
Here is my collection of unique and thoughtful gifts for the mother of the bride and/or the mother of the groom….
A Personalized Wedding Handkerchief for Mom
A personalized wedding handkerchief is a thoughtful gift for the mother of the bride or groom, giving her something to hold close for all those happy tears. Give it to her with a handwritten note (see some of my favorite cards below!) before the ceremony, or share a quiet moment together on the wedding morning. Afterward, it becomes a keepsake of the day and the love you celebrated together.
I hand embroider The Garter Girl’s 'Happy Tears' wedding handkerchief with a delicate dusty blue bow. You can add initials, a monogram or your wedding date to make it personal to your mom or mother-in-law. It’s a gift she can use during the wedding and save as a family heirloom for years to come.
Allow time for your handkerchief to be made, personalized and shipped. Check the current production details before ordering, especially if your wedding is approaching, and watch your email for any personalized embroidery approvals.
Happy Tears Wedding Handkerchief
Made by: The Garter Girl
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For an even more personal gift, we can explore a custom wedding handkerchief using meaningful family materials, such as lace from a wedding dress. Each design depends on your materials and what you’d like to create. Request a custom heirloom design to tell me about your ideas.
Custom Family Heirloom Wedding Handkerchief
Made by: The Garter Girl
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Custom Family Heirloom Wedding Handkerchief
Made by: The Garter Girl
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Custom Family Heirloom Wedding Handkerchief
Made by: The Garter Girl
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Practical Gifts for the Wedding Weekend
Practical wedding gifts for the mother of the bride or groom are especially thoughtful when they make her weekend a little easier. A tote can keep her getting-ready essentials together, slippers can give her feet a break, and a wedding handkerchief can be close at hand for happy tears. Think through how she’ll spend the weekend and choose something she’ll genuinely use. Give it to her before the festivities begin so she can enjoy it when she needs it.
Here a few gift ideas for what to gift your mom or future mother in law that she can use throughout the wedding weekend...
Mother of the Bride and Groom Bags
Made by: Moda Mia Gift
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Mother of the Bride and Groom Wine Tumbler
Made by: Weddings by Leann
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Mom Fluffy Slippers
Made by: Sisters G Shop
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Mother of the Groom Wedding Shirt
Made by: Blue Sand Textiles
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Personalized Gifts for the Mother of the Bride and Groom
Personalized gifts for the mother of the bride and groom can be as simple as a bracelet with family initials, a birthstone necklace or a handkerchief embroidered with your wedding date. Choose a detail that connects the gift to her, your family or the wedding day.
You can give both mothers the same type of gift while personalizing each one differently. Before ordering, double-check spelling, dates and the seller’s available customization options.
Here are some of my favorite gifts to give that a personalized for your mom...
Wooden Sign for Mom of Bride
Made by: Unique and Yours Gifts
Gold Custom Bracelet for Mom of Bride
Made by: Frosted Willow
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Charcuterie Board and Wine Gift Basket
Made by: Zehr Custom Engraving
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Gold Stacking Initial Rings for Mom of Bride
Made by: Fruition LA
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Gold Stacking Necklaces for Mom of Groom
Made by: Minetta Jewellery
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Sentimental Wedding Gifts for Mom
A sentimental wedding gift for your mom celebrates the memories and traditions you share. A family recipe book, a custom family portrait or a wedding handkerchief can give her something to treasure long after the celebration.
Think about what holds meaning for her: recipes she taught you to make, a favorite family photo or a handwritten message about what her support means to you. That connection is what makes the gift personal.
Here are some of my favoite keepsake type of gifts for mom and your future mother in law...
Family Recipe Book and Keepsake Journal
Made by: Duncan and Stone
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Birthstone Necklace for Mom of Groom
Made by: Delzehen
Handwritten Family Recipe Cutting Board
Made by: Hodge Mill
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Custom Cross Stitch Family Portrait
Made by: Shop Hoop Mama
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Gifts for Moms Who Love to Relax
If your mom has spent months helping with wedding plans, a relaxing gift can be a thoughtful way to thank her. A spa gift set, bath treats or cozy slippers gives her something to enjoy when the celebrations wind down.
Choose scents and products you know she likes, and keep any sensitivities in mind. Don't forget to add a note thanking her for something specific she helped with to make the gift feel connected to your wedding.
Here are some of my favorite gifts to help mom relax...
Elegant Set of Bath Bombs for Mom of Bride
Made by: Little Flower Soap Co
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Time To Relax Spa Gift Set
Made by: Natural Amor
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My Favorite Child Gave Me This Candle
Made by: Happy Inky Gift Shop
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Funny Mug for Mom of Groom
Made by: All in The Print
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Wedding Thank-You Cards for Mom and Your Mother-in-Law
A handwritten thank-you card is a meaningful way to tell your mom or mother-in-law what her love and support mean to you as you get married. Choose a card that reflects your relationship, whether it’s sweet, sentimental or a little funny, then make the message inside personal.
Mention a favorite memory, something she helped with during wedding planning or how she’s made you feel welcome in the family. Give it on its own or tuck it alongside her wedding gift for a keepsake she can read again long after the celebration.
Here are a few thank you cards and gift note cards that would be perfect for mom...
To My Mom Card
Made by: Papier and Design
Custom Generational Wedding Portrait
Made by: Heidi Fawn Art Design Co
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To My Best Friend and Mom Card
Made by: CC Paper Designs
How to Choose a Wedding Gift for Your Mom or Mother-in-Law
if you're wondering how to go about picking a gift for your mom or your future MIL, let's talk about it.
My best advice is to start with her personality rather than the wedding label on the gift. Does she treasure family keepsakes, wear meaningful jewelry, love entertaining or prefer something useful?
Then consider what you want to thank her for and how the gift can reflect your relationship.
If you’re shopping for a mother-in-law you don’t know well yet, ask your partner what she enjoys. Choose a gift that fits your budget, leave time for personalization and shipping, and include a handwritten note. Your words can make even a simple gift feel deeply meaningful.
Questions About Wedding Gifts for the Mother of the Bride and Groom
Do you need to give both mothers a wedding gift?
Wedding gifts for your mothers are a thoughtful gesture, not a requirement. If you choose to give gifts, including both mothers is a lovely way to thank them and celebrate your families coming together. A heartfelt letter can be just as meaningful as a purchased gift.
Should the mother of the bride and groom receive matching gifts?
Their gifts don’t need to match. Choose something that reflects each mother’s personality and your relationship with her. If you love the idea of coordinating gifts, consider wedding handkerchiefs personalized for each mom or jewelry with different initials or birthstones.
When should you give your mom her wedding gift?
The rehearsal dinner or wedding morning can be a lovely time to give your mom her gift. My advice is to choose a quiet moment when you can enjoy it together without feeling rushed. If she’ll use or wear the gift during the wedding, give it to her before she finishes getting ready.
What can you give a mother-in-law you don’t know well?
Choose something thoughtful without guessing too much about her taste. A wedding handkerchief with a handwritten thank-you note is a meaningful option that doesn’t require knowing her clothing size, favorite fragrance or jewelry style. Ask your partner about her interests and any family traditions that could help you choose.
How early should you order a personalized gift?
Order as soon as you’ve chosen the gift and confirmed the personalization details. Check the maker’s production time, then allow additional time for shipping and any approvals. At The Garter Girl, our 'Happy Tears' wedding handkerchiefs usually take about two weeks, but with shipping, please make sure to add in extra time. Personalized embroidery requires your approval before shipment, so leave room to review your design and always check the current product details before ordering.
A Meaningful Wedding Gift for Your Mom or Mother-in-Law
The most thoughtful wedding gifts for the mother of the bride and groom reflect who she is and what she means to you. Whether you choose personalized jewelry, a family recipe keepsake, a relaxing spa gift or a handwritten thank-you card, a personal connection makes your gift special.
Remember, you don’t need matching gifts for both mothers, just something chosen with love for each one.
If you’re looking for a sentimental wedding gift for your mom or future mother-in-law, a personalized wedding handkerchief is a beautiful way to thank her. She can use it for happy tears during the ceremony, then save it as a reminder of your wedding day.
Shop The Garter Girl’s hand-embroidered wedding handkerchief, or request a custom heirloom design to explore a keepsake made with meaningful family materials.
With love,
The Garter Girl
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